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On today’s episode we discuss intentions. It’s a mother. Listen to me rant.
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I am your host, DAME and you are listening to the Introvert Love Podcast brought to you by 9th Wave Entertainment. This is Episode # 13: For Me
Why do females in a relationship love to come home to the man and say I got this for you? Do you know what is that they got for us fellas? Oh I got my hair done, I got my nails done, I got this new dress for you!
Like what? Ok. What man has ever wanted, asked or demanded for any of those things. Get out of here with that bullshit! All that shit is for you and your self esteem issues. Just don’t say it’s for me cuz I can’t do shit with any of that. It ain’t no money going into pockets, a foot or back rub, felacio, a home cooked meal. Please! Please don’t say it’s for me.
I wish a man could come home and say look baby. I got this haircut and fresh pair of $200 Jordan’s for you. That should would never fly. Talk about double standards! You can’t walk in as a man and say that and not have bills paid or food on the table, etc.
Like don’t get me wrong. I kind of understand some reasoning behind it. You don’t want the man to get bored of seeing you the same way and have his attention fall somewhere else. You want to remain the apple of his eye. Still! That’s all on you cuz let me tell you something ladies all that could be appreciated maybe. But, not really. Maybe find out what I actually like and would be appreciated more than that. Cuz at the end of the day. If your man or woman’s attention is going to drift or if they’re known to drift then it’s going to do that anyway. Until they love what’s theirs. There will always be someone else may look better, etc. But that won’t matter until you appreciate what you have.
And Under the right conditions and with a long enough drought male or female we end up sometimes messing with anything or someone not of our so called standards.
So the nice gesture is appreciated but it’s ok. At least when a man gets flowers I can’t really do more with it then you can. I mean our main goal is to try and take off them clothes and mess up that hair you don’t us to touch now anyway!
My job is to get you to think. Not to persuade you or make you think like me. But, just to question what is around you. Why are things the way they are? Why do people think the way they do about certain things?
So take time today to find out what the person you’re having relations with really likes. What is something that you could do that they will remember and appreciate for a while. How else could you spice things up besides the old cliche oh I got this and that for you which is really for yourself. Not even a birthday suit came along with regular or chosen hygiene and maintenance. Think outside the box. Hit up google to get creative.
“Honesty Is A Very Expensive Gift. Don’t Expect It From Cheap People.”
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