Introvert Love Podcast Episode 6 "Dog Catcher" | 9th Wave Apparel

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All guys are dogs! Or are they? Listen to this because I finally understand the reasons as to why and will break it down for you. Every Dog Has His Day!

After all this time and the years that have past you may still hear that all men are dogs! Men are this and men are that. Especially now more than ever. And I agree men are trash sometimes. A lot more than you think. Even the ones that shouldn’t be sometimes are. I can admit and agree to that. But, this is a common case of one bad apple ruining the bunch. And one of the few, but strongest of the few, times where double standards are in favor of the woman. Because as a man, that is in no way perfect, I have still come across just as trash as many of women out here.

But, this isn’t a battle of the sexes episode. No. This is for those out there that may generalize and let society control many narratives that we as people have to navigate through and overcome. This, surprisingly has many layers and can be dissected even further than I may go today. If it does… Good. Continue the conversation further, get the discussion started.

As a man with many females as friends I occasionally hear the typical man bashing from time to time. Which never ceases to amaze me. Why? Well from a guys perspective in my younger years I was the chubby kid, with glasses in the advanced classes not getting much play from females you could imagine, even though I should be right? You might see where I’m going with this already, but, I’ll flip it don’t you worry. To keep the story short. It's the typical glow up story.

The dorky smart kid loses the glasses to get contacts, slims up a bit, maybe even dumbs themselves down a bit just to seem cooler and fit in. And what’s really funny is that society has us so messed up sometimes. That even as that dorky kid you may ignore the other dorky kid you should be liking over the so called popular one that you want. But, what do you expect when literally every teenage and adolescent movie and tv-show cultivates this type of thinking, Indoctrinating many of us until we break the programming and figure out what’s really important to us. The kids of today have this problem still now maybe worse than ever with the power of Instagram, Facebook and SnapChat

Anyway, you lose the glasses and glow up and Now the attention comes right!! So, we’re all guilty of it right? Wanting what we know is wrong and is bad for us… Doing what we know can harm us until we learn our lesson from trial and error. This is what is happening to those in my opinion that have bad experiences in dating and blame the opposite sex constantly. If we’re all in this thing together, knowing everything we know today about how complicated people are. Aren’t we all guilty of being dogs? Men lie… Women lie… Numbers Don’t… And the amount of infidelity, rates of divorce and other acts of what is consider to be dog like behavior is copable on both sides.

I’ve lived with 3 females and I’ve been around the boys and have seen honestly human behavior on both sides. Life happening in front of my very eyes based on choices, situations and circumstances. I’ve had women throw themselves at me while being involved in other relationships numerous times.

However, don’t let this discourage you of finding that special someone because they are out there and don’t limit yourself either from fear of searching for that someone. But, also you have to realize when you have a good thing in front of you. A lot I know. But, you have to trust your gut.

So why would certain men be dogs is how I’m rephrasing it because all men aren’t dogs just like all women aren’t hoes. And maybe  anyway sometimes we love our dogs and we love our hoes because everything has its place in the world. Just make sure you’re avoiding what you don’t want and are being realistic with what relationship goals you want and are important to you.

My job is to get you to think. Not to persuade you or make you think like me. But, just to question what is around you. Why are things the way they are? Why do people think the way they do about certain things? And challenge them.

If you are looking to get something off of your chest or want to present a question to maybe get some insightful answers or if you just have a good story you want to tell. We would love to have you on the show!

If you have any suggestions, comments or topics that you would like to have on the show. Send them to my Twitter @IntrovertDame. Also, Follow me on Instagram @IntrovertDame and Facebook @IntrovertDame.




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